Tuesday, July 29, 2008

...love comes first....

" Kassandra Okvath has battled cancer since 2003, when doctors diagnosed her with high-risk Stage III Neuroblastoma. Doctors gave her a twenty percent chance of surviving. She was seven-years old. Confined for many months in hospital, young Kassandra came to decide upon her legacy as one of hope. Cancer could very well take her at so young an age, but she would not let it define her life or its meanings –– for her everyday deeds of care, compassion, and hope would live far beyond her young years. This is how Kassandra came to dedicate herself toward improving the lives of fellow patients, children also, to help lift their spirits during the long, arduous medical treatments.

Kassandra set about to raise money for remodeling and painting the children’s Bone Marrow Transplant Unit (BMTU), creating a warmer, more hopeful space to lift the young patients’ spirits and help with their healing. To help raise money, she put together sets of beads and arranged them by color and design to create very special necklaces that would symbolize the various aspects of the struggle to overcome cancer. For instance, pink represented a cure; white pearl, the children’s courage; blue crystal evoked the tears for lost ones, clear crystal, the faith in doctors and in God. And pink crystal represented above all the power of love. She didn’t stop there, either. During her long stays of treatment, Kassandra became a fan of the Home Improvement televisions series, and she decided to seek help from the show’s staff in publicizing her necklaces as a way to raise money for improving the hospital ward. To Kassandra’s surprise and delight, the Extreme Makeover Home Edition answered her request. So many requests for the necklaces followed that Kassandra could begin not only to donate money for cancer research, but also to improve the lives of her fellow patients.

With the proceeds from her necklaces, Kassandra immediately set out to help her fellow patients. For example, she sponsored morale-boosting outings and picnics for the children and their parents at University Medical Center. In another example, Kassandra founded a non-profit organization -- Love Comes First -- to help address the emotional and spiritual needs of children struggling with life-threatening and or terminal diseases. She has undertaken yet another initiative to raise still more money for medical research and for procuring new toys, games, computers, and all manner of things and projects to help families cope during their most difficult days of their child’s hospitalization. And she has vowed to continue, even if for but for one hospital at a time, to bring a sense of warmth, care, and above all hope for young patients in their most elemental struggle to survive.

Even as Kassandra Okvath continues her daunting struggle with cancer, she also brings joy and comfort to countless other young patients and their families. She continues to make new plans, initiatives, and goals, even though she might have precious little time. Her struggle is poignant, and her drive to do good is heroic. Kassandra Okvath builds her legacy with each day she remains with us. Inspired by friends who lost their battle with cancer, Kassandra has inspired us all by giving families the happiest memories of hope, compassion, and love in the most dire of times. In doing so, Kassandra Okvath leaves us the most precious legacy of all: the will to do good as the means to live life at its fullest and most meaningful."

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Friday, June 22, 2007

Are you glad to be Human?

If you'll be ask this question, what will be your answer? Mine would be Yes, I am glad to be human. Who wouldn't be? I know there are downsides of being human but the joy and pleasure of being one far more outweighs them. Never mind the endless struggle we have to deal with on a daily basis because at the end, there's always something we can look forward to. The various tasks we all have to contend with can be daunting at times but then we can always count on God's helping hand. I am glad to be human even if it means I have to experience pain in the different aspects of my life --if it also means being with the people I care about. I am glad to be human and I wouldn't trade it for anything else......

..what I learned from Morrie...

"Sometimes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel. And if you are ever going to have other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them too--even when you're in the dark. Even when you're falling."

"Money is not a substitute for tenderness, and power is not a substitute for tenderness. When you most need it, neither money nor power will give you the feeling you're looking for no matter how much of them you have."

"Accept what you are able to do and what you are not able to do."

"Accept the past as past, without denying it or discarding it."

"Learn to forgive yourself and to forgive others."

"Don't assumed that it's too late to get involved."

"Death ends a life, not a relationship."

"Learn how to die and you learn how to live."

Patience

Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves...Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live with them and the point is to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually , without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.--R.M.Rilke