A tale of two sisters

Sister and I

I come from a big family. I have six younger sisters and two younger brothers. You do the math. Growing up, I never really thought about them much except that they were a bunch of kids I had to put up with, look after and get along. Aside from that tiny detail about having the same last name and coming from the same set of parents, we are different.

I can't say I have a favorite sibling or doted one more than the other. Of course, after having witnessed one sister arrived after another, every couple of years or so, the birth of my two younger brothers were more than welcome. And I even get to named the youngest one.

With my number one support crew (?)

But what I'm going to tell you is not about all of my younger siblings. It's about me and this particular sister of mine. She's not my favorite or anything. It's just that we get along well that even if we're extremely opposite from each other, we still get to have fun.

Our grandmother doted on both of us, so that's something we sometimes talk about and reminisce the good memories we had with our cool granny. My sister and I  never had a huge fight well, except for that time when I was so angry at her that I threw all her stuff out from our room. Oh, and there was another time too, when we both got into a heated argument that we ended up hitting each other. But the next day, all was okay again. And we talked and laughed like nothing happened.

We plan our days together in a way that  we'd make the most of our time. Well, it's really me that's always saying this "Hurry up, sister!"

I really have no clear memories of my sister and I growing up together since I'm just three years older than her. We all have weathered various trying times in our life. Deaths of our beloved grandmother and father. Then the births of our nieces and nephews.

When she left for Canada, five years ago, something was amiss in our family. Still, life goes on, my sister embraced the role of a breadwinner, albeit reluctantly. And somehow, I also miss her company. Four years later, I followed her.

To start off 2012.

Looking back, I realized that we're meant to be together. Although, we don't get to see each other often, we always have loads of fun when we hang out. Tiya told me once that, it was meant to be, so we can have each other to lean on, especially on crappy times.

I'm sure that we get along fine not only because we are sisters. I guess it will be boring and not much fun if we have the same likes. Though it would have been  nice if  she also like running but I don't begrudge her that.

Yes, we are.

When I badly needed a good laugh, I go and see her. And not because she's funny-looking or something. It's just that when I'm around my sister, even the simplest thing or occurrence can be a source of fun. Whenever we hang out, we manage to talk and laugh just about anything. Then before we know it, it's time for me to go.

I don't think about how it would have been different if my sister is not here. I'm glad that she is. One day, I complained about how we're working hard and don't have the time to enjoy it. She simply said, "Let's make the time." 

Good call, sister. :-)